Chris Brown and Rihanna
I must admit, the first time I became aware of the magnitude of Chris Brown was on my way back from a ministry trip. He was on the cover of the June 2008 issue of Ebony Magazine and, because it was free, I brought two of them home for my daughters. Why? Because I wanted them to read an article in that particular issue about black women and AIDS. I figured that with Chris Brown on the cover as eye candy they would eventually digest the main meal, which was far more nutritional for their minds. Now, Chris Brown is back in my life for a reason just as serious as AIDS: physical abuse. Because of his fame, his youth, the fame of the very woman he struck (Rihanna), the time it occurred (days before they were to perform a duet at the Grammy Awards Ceremony), and the pervasive nature of this problem, Chris Brown has become a lightning rod on this subject. And once Oprah gets involved well you know it’s going to be very, very big (Oprah Speaks Out on Chris Brown’s Assault on Rihanna). Like substance abuse and sexual abuse, physical abuse transcends all cultures, ages, educational backgrounds, and even religious backgrounds. Here’s where this issue really becomes an even bigger problem: these things are just not supposed to involve Christians, right? Yet who can forget what happened on August 23, 2007, when the news reported that Prophetess Juanita Bynum was being kicked by her husband while on the ground in a hotel parking lot (Cops: Televangelist Juanita Bynum Assaulted by Husband). The televised 2003 Christian Cinderella-esque wedding, complete with an 8-karat (7.76 to be exact) diamond ring was certainly not supposed to end in a parking lot beat down four years later. This unexpected event just goes to show us how the problems of a secular society are almost always the same problems of the saintly church. We certainly need to pray more regarding this problem, given that it is very dangerous and yet can remain very private. At Pentecostal Tabernacle, we are actually in the process of launching a project that begins to address this issue. Thus, the current focus on this problem could not have come at a better time for us, but the ordeal was quite unfortunate for both Rihanna and Chris Brown. I invite your...read more

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